m i n d
these activities all challenge, strengthen, and support my mental and emotional health.
w a t e r c o l o r
i have no formal art training, but i have enjoyed dabbling in watercolor and calligraphy (both traditional and handlettered styles) for years. my favorite thing about watercolor is that it is so forgiving and imperfect, which makes it helpful for slowing down and being present.
v i d e o • a n d • m o b i l e • g a m e s
when the weather is nice, i don't play video or mobile games very frequently, but
elder scrolls online has had my heart for several years. decorating my houses and listening to the music in the background is one of my favorite pastimes.
neopets is another game that i've rediscovered over the past few years and check in on from time to time. honestly, if i remembered my login info for
gaia online, i'd probably be playing that, too (or at least i would if zOMG! were still a thing). other games that i occasionally dabble in include:
- clash royale (ios)
- genshin impact (ios)
- runescape (ios)
- longleaf valley (ios)
- my time in portia (switch lite)
- neopets: faerie fragments (ios)
- virtual cottage 2 (steam/mac)
r e a d i n g
i've always been a consistently voracious reader, although the intensity ebbs and flows with the seasons. i downloaded libby on my ipad and also purchased a page turner and gooseneck stand that allow me to read while walking on my walking pad. the page turns with a click of a bluetooth ring, which means i can focus on not falling off of my walking pad. i dislike reading anything too stressful or dark. my favorite tropes and genres include:
- historical romance
- enemies to lovers
- romantasy
- beauty and the beast elements
- arranged/forced marriage or marriage of convenience
- competent heroine
- slow burn
as of 08 july, i have read 18 books in 2026.
c s c s
this is also linked to my physical personal development, but studying for the cscs exam has been the perfect way to discipline myself to continue learning without committing to another degree.
p e r f u m e s
collecting perfumes, bookmarking ones to try, and choosing fragrances for different moods and environments has become part of the rhythm of my day. it is a small luxury to be able to smell good and, similar to choosing my outfit or makeup, wearing perfume boosts my confidence. my favorite notes include:
- solar
- white floral - ylang ylang, jasmine, frangipani
- aquatic
- fruity - pear, raspberry, coconut
- green
- gourmand - tea, rice, mochi
for reviews of fragrances i own, check out
my perfume shrine.
n e o c i t i e s
and of course, neocities! learning new code and seeing it live on my website gives me such a sense of fulfillment.